Whether you have sex once a day, once a week or once a month, most if not all us do tend to hit a snag every now and then, under the sheets.
Either way, do not be embarrassed by it and instead discuss on ways you could spice things up in the bedroom with your partner. If there is no element of surprise in the relationship, perhaps it is time to bring back a few ideas and tricks to get the ball rolling. Here are our suggestions on how you could rekindle that flame or have that flame grow stronger!
Sunday
Hot Warm Baths
You may have been in the same relationship for seven years and you may know the exact location for all seven moles your partner has on his or her’s body. So, you know them well, both inside and out. But, that doesn’t mean the relationship should be boring. Bring in a few things from the past. Get nostalgic together. If that means filling the tub with bath bombs and rose petals like how you use to do it back in the early dating days, get the tap running! After a nice long bath together, throw in some cuddles while you Netflix a favourite show!
Monday
Get Creative with your Takeout
The first day of the week is often stressful and this might throw a wrench into any plans on being romantic. So, we suggest taking it slow and steady. Grab takeout but make sure it is food that can be held in your hand and placed on your body (cue Samantha Jones placing sushi on her body from American television series, Sex and the City). While you’re halfway through your meal, place a piece of red ‘ahi’ tuna near the nape of his neck and we shall leave the rest to your imagination!
Tuesday
Switch Positions
If you’re always on top, why not switch positions and have her on top? If you have the time, drop by the bookstore and pick a copy of the ‘Kamasutra’ and try out a few different positions. Read the book together and pick something both of you would be interested to try!
Wednesday
Go Commando
Tell your partner you want to have dinner outside. Once you’re about to get out of the car, send him or her a cheeky text stating that you are not wearing any underwear. Let them simmer in that information throughout dinner while you pretend there is nothing going on and you just want a nice meal. See if your partner keeps their hands to themselves!
Thursday
Talk About It
One way of improving your sex life is by talking about it with your partner. Tell him or her what turns you on and what turns you off. Do not be shy because you want to have fun while having sex and would want your partner to be enjoying themselves too. So, the next time you’re having sex, if things don’t really go well, talk about it. If things went really well, talk about it too!
Friday
Date Night
It is Friday night and work conversations should be at the back burner. Whether you intend to have a cosy night in or a wild night out, set the pace for the night by kicking it off after lunch hours. Send your partner a cheeky text and tell them you’re thinking about them and what they should be doing for the night. Plan a casual date night if the both of you have the time and see where that leads you!
Saturday
Take It Outside
No, we don’t mean fornicating out in the open or in public unless you are truly alone with your partner and can confirm you will not get into trouble with the authorities or even your neighbours! We mean spicing it up and getting it on at the kitchen table or the couch or well, if you’re feeling really adventurous, give them a tight little squeeze while he or she is doing laundry and nibble their ears softly while telling them what’s in store for the rest of the day.
